Trust is a basis in any relationship whether it is in the workplace or in our personal relationship. When trust is questioned, it can hurt feelings and hurt relationships. One case where trust has is when I hurt me in a personal basis was when I was having Migraines. Back in December I hit a deer, to explain it easily; I had a pretty bad case of whiplash and some really bad back pain. I have had some problems ever since, including migraines, dizziness and light headedness. However, some days are worse then others.
One Sunday I went to work and I had the worse migraine. I didn’t want to call into work because I knew I was needed, and the one time I did in the past they gave me a bad time about it. Two days later I had to call into work. Because My migraine was horrible, My boss picked up the phone and said what ever and hung up on me, After that he calls me a few hours later and says, “Well are you coming in tomorrow and asked if I had gotten a doctors appointment.” I continue to say no, but I did have a doctor’s appointment. I went to the doctors and got a doctors note. saying that I needed a few more days off. I give the note to my boss and I then go home. Just by chance, my ex fiancé came back in town on leave, and I had been spending time with him. But my boss thought I was pretending to be sick, so I could spend time with him. It got to the point when my boss was driving by my house to make sure my car was still in front of my house. After going though this I was almost tempted to quit. That is because if my boss goes to this existent to make sure I wasn’t lying to him obviously he doesn’t trust me. It was humiliating and very hurtful.
1 comment:
This is an interesting, passionate blog entry. My only suggestion here is to definitely watch word choice. For example, you said, "One case where trust has is when I hurt me in a personal basis" in the first paragraph and I don't quite know what you mean here. Keep watching for those "little things!"
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